My husbands mother/family do not treat my son like family.what do i do?

Jacquelyne - posted on 05/24/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




My husband has been in my sons life since he was about 8 months old. His bio dad is not in his life. my son is 5 now and we just had a baby girl in december and now his whole family is how is the baby doing we need pictures of the baby. Not one time has his mother or anyone but his granda come to my sons birthday or anything. His grandma is my sons mema. shes the only one thats been there. Im tired of it because they tell him hell be a great dad but hes been my sons father for 5 yrs! ive tried to tell him and he says its not like that. What do i do


Brittney - posted on 05/24/2012




There is nothing you can do. I would distance myself from them. If they say things like that in front of you just out right say. "He's been a father for 5 years already." Or "he has 2 children" whatever makes scene for the comment they made. Don't invite them to your daughters birthday and if they ask why say that they never came to her brothers birthday for the last 5 years so why would you think they would want to come to hers. Just act like it's obvious that you thought they wouldn't want to come. Don't be out right rude, be sneaky rude like them. But don't let this get to you or ruin your family. Just live your life. Who cares who wants to be in it, just love the ones that are there for you.

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