My oldest daughter is so selfish and self centered and she hurt as so

Lilly - posted on 11/04/2016 ( no moms have responded yet )




Dear all
My name is Lilly and I'm 50 yr I have two girls the oldest is a living hell , now that she moved out .we can breathe and enjoy the simple things our day have to offer even if it's just a wee walk with our dog , or just taking a nice cup of tea together .
It's been 10 weeks she left and she made it very clear she never comming back and how much she hate all of us. We never tell her we hate her ,we truly were walking on eggshells when she lived with us we never knew when the next punch going to hit or even came from .
This is the first time I can see that my other girl the youngest one finely have a voice and lord she is funny πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€, I was so worried when the oldest move did not know where she went or who with and when I text her she. Just was nasty and rode,very cruel to be honest . I tried my hardest to be kind and nice and ignore the nasty SMS comming from her but now after 10 weeks I don't ever read them , i decided to be happy 😊 to enjoy the family 😍To allow my self to heal from the last 15 yeas of abuse from her if she want to hate me well by all means hate I will always love her but from far I will not let her in to our life again . Where she can hit me and curse me and put me down . She loves her friends so much they all ways came first so I say they are welcome to her . She put them on a high high pedestal. Never us no matter what we did for her we were no good. She told us to stay away from her she is in university now and she told her friends she have no perents .that drove me up the wall . I could not believe or even understand it . Now I will think of us and my other child who had it very hard from her bully sister .
I sit wrong of me as a mother to give up it's not like me att all .
I have very strong faith in God we are church going family she never came she hate god she don't believe and we respect her . But now I just had it no more abusing me in words no more . I just hope I'm doing the right thing . I just must say it's so nice to wake up in the morning to a peaceful home. No one yell or curse me or throw things att me .no one called me idiot no more all I hear is good morning mummy
Thank you for taking the time to read my little words .love Lilly from Ireland

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