My only son died in a car crash on 10th July 2011 and I can't get this over yet . cry everyday.


Julie A - posted on 09/30/2013




Do what you gotta do to grieve. I had to get professional help. That, and time. I've already said a prayer for you. I promise it will get better . I lost my Noah when he was seven. He would have been 13 this past June 30. I was put on cymbalta and xanax, an it numbed the pain. I thought I would never have kids again. As the years passed, i worked through alot of pain. I got a journal and wrote to him daily. I joined a bereavement group at my church and embraced what I did have. I tell myself and know God has a plan an he needed Noah. Life has gotten better, This past weekend i celebrated my girls 2nd birthday. And I have an 8 month old girl! They are beautiful and a miracle! Such a blessing. God works in mysterious ways. I was mad at him for awhile, but time heals the stinging a bit..I had to focus on what I had while I had to accept he was gone. I still get very sad sometimes and still on my antidepressant . Every once in a while i get panic attacks but i pray and cry whenever i need. I try to do everything i can to honor his memory an talk to him. I pray you find acceptance and peace. They will ALWAYS be with us in our heart. God doesn't give us anything we cannot handle, sweetheart . And we will See them again! I know this in my heart and soul.You can email me if you want..

Jodi - posted on 09/28/2013




I am so sorry for your loss Ann. I can't say I understand your pain, because I have never had to live this kind of pain. However, I just wanted to let you know there are supportive women on this site who may be able to provide you with some comfort. I also wanted to ask if you have had any grief counselling?


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Ann - posted on 10/07/2013




Its crazy feeling to loose an only son.Its beyond expectations.My mind and imagination brings so much sadness.

Rachel - posted on 09/30/2013




I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what it's like. Therapy may be of some help to you or possibly a support group for mothers that have lost children.

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I am so sorry for you loss. I wish I can find the right words to say. The only thing that comfort me when I think about the people that I lost is believing that they are not in any pain. You can't live like that crying every day. I pray and hope that you try to find ways to cope. Please do get any help that you need.

Gena - posted on 09/29/2013




Dear Ann
I am very sorry for your loss,i light a candle everyday for my sister that passed away.Today i will light another candle for your son.

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