My son

Laura - posted on 08/01/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My son has just told me he is bisexual and that he is dating someone who is trans.I don't have a problem with his sexuality.I am just so confused as to how this relationship works.He says they have not been intimate yet.He also insists he is not gay.I just don't understand

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Nicole - posted on 08/02/2015

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I agree, I think he is probably just in the experimentation stage...just show him you except him just the way he is. He may not like it and change very quickly..lol. relax don't worry.

Michelle - posted on 08/02/2015

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Your post really doesn't make sense, he has said he is bisexual but isn't gay. Bisexual means he is attracted to both men and women. You also haven't said what way his partner is trans. Man to woman or woman to man?

You really don't need to understand it all though. Be there as a support for him when he needs it, that's all you need to do.

MaryAnn - posted on 08/01/2015

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You dont need to understand. You just need to love him and support him. Treat this partner as you would any other girlfriend (boyfriend? Trans isnt a very clear descriptor). If youre confused, ask GENDER and act accordingly. The between-the-legs history is irrelevant. Remember. Like any other girl/boyfriend... as a parent, you wont want to hear it.
He might be experimenting. He might not be. But he's your son, and He's in love, so you should be happy for him if he's happy.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 08/01/2015

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Ditto Sarah. I can't really add a lot more, except LOVE your son. Let him see that no matter what his sexuality, it really doesn't matter.

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