My son, Help me

Sona - posted on 10/22/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




So my son is a 4.0 student, very quiet and reserved. “Says he has many friends at school” Although he is on his ipad reading all the time and what not in his room 24/7 away from us, my husband asked for the password the other day to check out the ipad and make sure everything is ok and my son did not give the password to him. As a result we took off his door, put parental controls on his computer, the ipad has been taken until he can earn it back. Additionally he had 2 monitors on his computer so we took one out so he has only one now. Also he should get a job this summer and work full time. And we told him he’s getting kicked out at 18 with no support for college if he doesn’t give us the password. He put a password on his home computer (in his room) ITS NOT HIS PROPERTY HE CANT DO THAT ---although it has been changed
I watch a lot of dateline and it worries me with kids getting beat up all of the sudden and hurt.


Sunitha - posted on 10/22/2013




HI THERE! PLEASE do not be harsh on your kids, take him out to a place which he likes and make friendship with him not like parent but as friend and slowly he will open up with you on what exactly he is doing. and might give password to you. keep him in touch wiht your emotions. never snacth anythign from him. some kids are adamant, so handle them in thei own style, find out their likings and do that for a day or 2 involve them and then they will for sure pen up with you

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