My son is turning twenty this month he lives at home and goes to school full time six months ago I told him I did not care for her and to move on he refuses what next? My heart is breakingmonths ago he met a girl on line and now they are going out. I told him from the beginning I did not care r


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Denikka - posted on 11/12/2012




What gives you the right to tell your 20yr old son who he can and cannot date?

So you don't like her? He obviously does and that's what should be important. He's an adult and, even though he's still living at home, he gets to make his own decisions. If you're really THAT upset about it, tell him to find his own place so that you don't have to see it/be around it.

Other than that, there's really not a whole lot of control you have over your adult sons love life.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/12/2012




Well, sorry but you are not in charge of your adult sons love interests. Just because he is under your roof, does not mean you can control who he dates. You can give advice, and your words of wisdom, but your words are your opinions.

What is next? If you cannot deal with the reality that he is his own person and will choose who he wants to be with, you can ask him to move out. Or you can suck it up and get to know this girl. Hell, she may be your future daughter in law.

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