My son's father slept with my only sister!

Stephanie - posted on 10/22/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




I'm really going through it. Me and my son's dad split up after 6 years of lots ups and downs. And I find out he started sleeping with my sister after we broke up. It's been month's and he is trying to get back in my life.


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Unfortunately, he will always be "in your life" because you have a child with him. I'm not exactly sure what you are asking...

If you weren't together when he slept with your sister, why does it matter? Would you be equally upset if he'd slept with someone who was not your sister, or are you upset because he slept specifically with your sister?

If you are asking if you should give your romantic relationship another shot, I'd say probably not. You said you'd had 6 years of ups and downs--if you haven't been able to work things out over 6 years, you're probably better off apart. Also, if you were apart long enough for him to sleep with someone else, that's a pretty sure sign you don't need each other--if he loved you, he would have spent the whole time you were split up trying to get you back, but he moved on to another girl, so obviously, he doesn't love you. You deserve someone who does. I would let your sister have him.


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Ileana - posted on 12/04/2013




Id say NO DON'T GET BACK WITH HIM. how could he sleep with ur sister? Will u feel comfortable with him visitingur family afterwards?, knowing he desires ur, sister? If she was my sister I would have beat the living daylights out of her. How could she do that to u?? U can't trust either one of them. I wouldn't get back with him. Id do my best to forget him, and never look back. Why would u want someone like that anyway. U deserve better. It won't stop. Shes riight there n always will b since she's ur family.

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