My son told my boyfriend he loves him already

Valerie - posted on 04/22/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




We have been together for about three months and he has never met him but hes said hi on the phone a couple times. I know hes only saying I love you because I say I but it kinda freaked my boyfriend out cause he didnt know what to say. He didnt want to hurt his feelings by not saying it but he also isnt ready to say that yet. Any suggestions?


Decimus - posted on 04/22/2014




If your son doesn't have his father around its no wonder he said I love you. Probably the absolute single most important thing in a boys life more then his school or his friends or anything else is another male whose older then him and who loves him. Bottom line. Thats how we evolved. If a boy didn't have a man around to love him and hang out with him and show him how to live and how to hunt and become part of the world he would die. Your boy is starving for male affection. I hope your boyfriend likes boys because your son will be on him like white on rice 24/7. Guaranteed. Heads up if your boyfriend is an asshole who doesn't like boys then brake up with him because he'll brake your sons heart. Find a guy who wants to be close buddies with him. Its like, really important. Maybe the most important thing, besides keeping him away from dangerous shit like ritalin and adderall.

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