Haylin - posted on 04/18/2015 ( 10 moms have responded )
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Well first of i put child support on my baby father about 6 yrs ago and he started pay last yr @ july and stopped on January of this yr 2015. i haven't received anything ever since what can i do? Now his new wife is always bugging in like if she was my son mother and just recently she called the cops on me cause my baby father's missed his weekend and i wouldn't allow him to pick him up any more. What is the best thing to do im so tier of her getting involved if she has no business in this. we spoke but just make it worse we had an argument and i just cant get along with him or her . Need good advice pls.
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Cutemommy - posted on 04/20/2015
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Oh I see, I believe you could file for back child support for the times he missed. If he doesn't pay child support on time they can put a hold on his license and it also will be very negative on his credit. There is no excuse for him to have missed so much. Go to the court and have it adjusted. She was right for calling the cops especially if you were keeping his son from him, and any law enforcement and judge will tell you the same thing, even if you were morally justified to do it. It isn't fair for him to only pick his son up when he wants instead of when he is scheduled, make a calender and list the times he misses his dates and the days he gets your son so the courts can see exactly what is going on. Don't go in there just placing a lot blame, it starts to be just your word against his keep everything written down. It sounds like the communication is not going so well and the only thing that could help is a mediator, or a judge.