My special needs daughter sneaks food sometimes causing my demanding boyfriend to argue

User - posted on 08/05/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )




My daughter sneaks and gets sometimes what she wonts to eat she is 18 handicapped I do not like this I have a demanding boyfriend and he can start tripping sometimes like she was not to eat that bannana until after dinner.

Its like she wonts us to maybe start arguing gosh I got to move go to the bathroom etc and way I like my computer he soon to just think I dont pay anything any attention hopefully he will move out soon why does she do this living with the both of them is something what do I do


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Neva - posted on 08/05/2011




Even though your daughter is handicapped, she should still have the right to eat a snack if she wants to. It sounds as if your boyfriend is controlling. In my mind, your daughter needs to come first and no boyfriend should be telling you or her when and what she can eat.

Jodi - posted on 08/05/2011




That's a really confusing post, but I read "hopefully he will move out soon" and wonder why you are even still with him if that's the way you feel?

Amy - posted on 08/05/2011




So she isn't supposed to have the food or he just doesn't want her to have it. I have to say if it's him just getting mad because she eats something I'd send him packing and not belooking to blame my daughter because she had something to eat!
Even if she had a dietary restriction he's just a boyfriend and should leave it for you to deal with!

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