My stepson has a drug enabling relationship with his mom :( Anyone else ever deal with this?

User - posted on 10/13/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




My fiance and I have custody of his kids. But his 17 year old son only goes to his moms on the weekends so he can get high with her and her boyfriend. It's infuriating to me as a My stepson is 17 and has this enabling drug relationship with his bio mom. But if I say anything all I ever hear is....well thats just their relationship.


Bobbie - posted on 10/14/2012




Unfortunately you have not been part of his life when you could have guided him away from making these choices. At his age there is little you can do but observe and keep him in line when he is back home WITHOUT throwing up the drug use or his mother as a reason for misbehavior. He should be able to continue his mother's relationship without interference however your positive role model influence and unwavering support of him will make you the go to person for support when mom falls short, as you know she will.

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