new spanking mom

Amy - posted on 01/15/2017 ( 15 moms have responded )

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Hello amy single mom with twinn girls ages 9 and a son age 6 I am a strict mom looking to chat and exchange discipline ideas and I hope I make some new friends thanks amy

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Antoinette - posted on 10/20/2017

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Hey mom of 3 girls and very pro spanking as my daughters will confirm lol.

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Sarah - posted on 02/17/2018

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Christ on a cracker there is a whole community devoted to spankers! IMO unnecessary and sickening Take a parenting class and learn!

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I am Maya, mother of two daughters, age 19 and 18 and I still spank them very often.
With excellent results.
If someone wants to talk about it, be free to write me.
Maya

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I am Maya, mother of two daughters, age 19 and 18 and I still spank them very often.
With excellent results.
If someone wants to talk about it, be free to write me.
Maya

Michelle - posted on 10/20/2017

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Antoinette: Can you not see that I warned someone else NOT to post their email address on here? This is an open forum and anyone around the world can get your email. Basic internet security.
There is a private message function if you want to message a member.
Michelle,
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Michelle - posted on 07/22/2017

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Amy: Basic internet security advises to NEVER put your personal email address out in public. This is an open international forum that anyone can read and get access to your email. I advise you remove your email address before someone gets it that you don't want.
Michelle,
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Ev - posted on 01/17/2017

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I am in agreement with the others and some of Mommie Pumpkin's ideas.

Mommie Pumpkin--just a bit of advice. Telling a child more than once or twice to do something or to change their behavior is not good. Eventually, they are going to wait to see if you will follow through. If you say it once or twice with no action taken on the child's part then you should then act. As for letting him play games before getting ready to go to school or other places; why? He should be getting around for school not distracted. The longer you allow this to go on the more he will procrastinate about getting ready for school. I would make the games for when he is done with the day and has homework and other things that need done a priority and make him earn that play time. He does not need to be playing games all the time and especially getting around for school. The threat of telling daddy is not going to last either. Deep voice or not, if you make him wait until dad gets home...what good does it do? Eventually the threat of telling dad if he does not listen is going to do no good..

Michelle - posted on 01/17/2017

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I agree with Jodi and some of what Mommie_Pumpin said.
I am a strict Mum and I haven't spanked my children. My 15yo knows right from wrong. Of course he tries to push the boundaries but it all it takes is grounding him or taking away his technology for a while and he's back on track.
I have never said "I'm going to tell Daddy" as that won't get me anywhere in regards to him respecting me. When they get taller than you, that's when the other forms of discipline show they have worked. I couldn't even get my son over my knee to spank him even if I wanted to.

Jodi - posted on 01/17/2017

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I'm a strict mum too....but I do it without hitting my kids. There are many other ways to implement discipline in your children that are not physically or psychologically harmful and let your children know where the boundaries are.

The "I'm going to tell daddy" is not about a deep voice, by the way. My kids would MUCH rather get in trouble with daddy than mummy. Because mummy is the one who is more consistent - that's the REAL key to discipline. Not hitting or yelling or any of that other stuff.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/16/2017

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Marta, you ARE ABUSING and borderline SEXUAL ABUSING your kid.

Michelle - posted on 01/16/2017

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I did warn you that you won't get a lot of support here.
In a lot of countries, spanking is classed as abuse (and it is as you don't just go around hitting adults that you disagree with).

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/15/2017

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Discipline idea suggestion #1

Learn how to use a system of consequences and rewards, rather than fall back on the tired old "children must be spanked" shtick!

I am a strict parent who, after my children reached the age of around 4 , figured out that verbal communication, consistently enforced consequences, and reasonable rewards was a much better discipline model. My kids are now grown, sharing an apartment, supporting themselves, and contributing members of society.

Yours are more than old enough to do well without you physically assaulting them.

Michelle - posted on 01/15/2017

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You won't find a lot of people that support spanking on here.
There are other ways to be a strict parent without spanking.

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