Newly married son

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I was not invited to the baby shower and did not know about it until I suggested having a tea for my future daughter-in-law. I was told no to the tea and then asked if I wanted to be invited to the shower. I was hurt and said don't worry about it.

Now they are expecting a baby. We were asked not to say anything until they told us we could. Her mom emailed me tohis morning and said that she was told last Saturday that she could tell everyone. It is Wednesday and nobody has told me I can say anything yet.

I am hurt and I cried. Am I being childish?


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Kris - posted on 01/23/2013




Don't cry! It sounds as though you take things personally. I do at times. take the upper road. Call and ask or just bring up in conversation. Do it in a nice manner. Don't make a big deal of it. I hope you went to the bridal shower.

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