Not comfortable with Teen daughter spending the night at her Bestie's house anymore!

Sherri - posted on 03/14/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




My daughter is a sweet 16 yr old girl. Smart, talented in sports and involved in other school clubs. Long story short: I let her spend the night a few times at her new Bestie's house. Problem is the Bestie has a big Brother who is almost 18. I trusted the situation because we have a very open dialogue and I share all kinds of advice with her. Plus she claimed that although he is cute, she is not interested. Welllll, her last report card wasn't that great so I put her on punishment and took her phone away. When I had it, I snooped around at her messages and saw that she has a relationship with her Bestie's big Brother. I saw kissing pics and not only that ...her Bestie's messages to her prove that the Bestie is becoming sexually active!! My daughter has admitted that she's not ready for that stuff yet on the replies in the messages , but she has thought about it. What should I do?? Problem is that her grades are back up again and now she's asking to spend the night again! I don't want her to know what I know, but I don't want bad influences around her and im not sure what to do!! Any advice??


~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/14/2014




Ummmm...nope. I would not let her spend the night at her boyfriends house at that age.....cause really that is what she is asking to do. Instead, tell her that her friend can stay over your house. I am sure her "bestie" doesn't like being used for access to her brother anyhow.

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