Not feeling loved

Carolanne - posted on 08/08/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am a stay at home mom of two. I'm very bored at times and most of all I do not feel loved by my kids father. We argue all the time and I know it's because I have no adult time! So I tend to nag. He doesn't understand my position as a stay at home mom and just makes rude comments about how anyone would love to be in my shoes right now. He can be so negative! He says he would trade places with me any day. His words are hurtful and it's to the point where I'm not sure I can handle it anymore. Does anyone go through this or has gone through this? If so what did you do?


Dominique - posted on 08/09/2013




I' m sorry to hear about your husband not being kind to you. I'm not going trough this myself. The part that I would like to address is the bored part. Being a stay home mom myself for the last ten years. I use to feel bored and overwhelmed myself. Until I decided to do something for me. I would suggest you do something for you also , for example you can join your local gym, they have childcare services if your kids are young, you can join a mom and child class in your community. That way you will be able to meet other stay home moms. How about your local church? They sometimes have activities for women where childcare is free.

My son is now 9, I've met other stay home moms in my community over the years thru the different classes i took. We've remained in contacts. We go for coffee, have playdates with the kids ect. meet for lunch at each others houses. It doesn't have to be expensive. In turn you will feel better and be happier.

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