painful ? yes ; easy ? no ; getting better ; finally !♥

Savannah - posted on 09/17/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




Well on September 4, 2012 it was four months since I lost Autumn . Her daddy & I have been having problems of our own and he decided to tell me we dont have nothing together anymore besides we HAD a daughter together , I love this man so much and took his apology when he said he only said it because he was mad / upset . I don't know what to do or how I should feel about it . All I know is I am confused bc after Autumn died I felt like I lost everything in me , I've been having problems with losing a ton of weight like skin and bones and still dealing with the heart ache . On top of all of this I have this man bringing me down more when he should be supporting me most . Any advice is good enough .


Jennifer - posted on 09/17/2012




Oh Savannah honey! I'm so sorry you two are having troubles after what you have already been through. It sounds like he is hurting too and maybe not really able to articulate it well. There is so much pain associated with this loss. Can you two find a counselor to help you through this and work on relating to each other? I believe I messaged you earlier. If so, I know it has been hard too because you guys are so young. But there are folks out there, counselors, who can help you work through this with each other. It may help to work together since you both are dealing with the loss of your precious baby girl. Honestly, the relationship may last and it may not. But you share this experience and can support each other that way. I wish I could hug you both and let you know someone out here cares about you. I will say a prayer for you.

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