Parental Alienation

User - posted on 04/13/2018 ( 2 moms have responded )




My ex has ALIENATED me from my children for the last 10 years. He never informed me when my son was being operated on.. When he was throwing a graduation party. When they are sick. I text them constantly to no avail. I am heartbroken for my youngest who is 20. I now am hearing he has never once been out. Not 1 friend. No one has ever knocked for him. I hear that he just stays in his room. I saw him over the holidays and I broke down. It doesn't even look like him. He looks so Meek. I have always asked him to plz live with me. Atleast come visit. He sd he feels sorry for his father. But for the last 3 months he completely ignores me. I love him so much. I don't no what to do. He needs help. To have never gone out once as a teenager. His father has just ALLOWED THIS obviously.


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Ev - posted on 04/13/2018




And as Michelle said, you had ten years to do something about it. Why did you not do something through the legal system? Really, if he was doing this you could have gotten proof and taken him to court to get things sorted out.

Do not just blame him for how this turned out. You did nothing from the sounds of it outside of texting, calling and so forth with no responses.

Also just because you hear your son has had issues socially does not mean that he does. You were given second hand or third hand information. Even if he looks MEEK does not make him that.

You and his father failed to do what was right by the kids. Too late now.

Michelle - posted on 04/13/2018




Did you ever go to court to have visitation or contact?
There was a lot you could have done over the last 10 years to be in your child's life.

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