Pregnant, Over 40 and suddenly single.

Kaylee - posted on 05/01/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




I am 8 weeks preg with my ex boyfriends baby. I was on bc but obviously that didn't work. He and I were only together a few months but everything was perfect I thought up until he blindsided me with a breakup saying he never got over his ex. I haven't told him I'm preg even though I have known a few weeks. I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks a few years back and have been dealing with my own feelings and how to tell him. I didn't want to throw this on him while I was still processing the whole thing myself. He has told me he loves me. I was falling in love with him. But then last night I got the call I wasn't expecting and he said it wasn't fair to me that he still cares for her so he is just done with our relationship. I already have kids. 3 out 4 are getting older and such amazing young adults. Financially I'm not stable but always get by so I'm not worried about money. I just don't know how I can emotionally go through this alone. At this stage in my life I've already experienced so much pain and heartache. I am very loving and need the companionship of a healthy relationship. I'm broken in so many ways but still somehow believe in love. Now this. God help me through this time of my life. Because today, home from work after crying all night, I don't know if I can get through the day let alone a pregnancy and raising a child alone. :(


Joyseepoo - posted on 05/01/2014




Of course you can get through it. Might be a little shaky for a while, but all will work out just as it's supposed to. Children are always a blessing,and im quite sure you will love this baby with everything you have. Your love will get you through a day at a time! God bless


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