Pregnant with number 4 and undecided. Please help!!!

Jeanae - posted on 01/15/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




Hello all,

I am very new to the site but habe visited pleanty of times and the community seems very nice. Recently I foumd out that I am expecting my 4th child. I have a 4yo, 3yo and 2yo from a previous relationship and jist found out I am again woth my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He wants to go to the military and I know it will be next to impossible if we keep this child. I have thought about adoption or parenting myself because God has blessed me with the means to care for my children I currently have. I do not wish to have an abortion although it is still an option. I am 24 as well is he. We both work full time and am im in school as well. My family would nearly disown me if they found out and his family would be very disappointed. When I ask him what he thinks all je says is he will support me no matter what. I feel that he would prefer abortion or adoption but I am very torn and keep changing my minds between all options. I have sad down and wrote all the pros and cons between each one and I feel they all have equal amount of pros and cons that are equally important to me. Can anyone help me with their experiences or any words of wisdom.

-Thanks in advance

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