saying goodbye to my kids

Jeny - posted on 02/09/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




me and my ex have 50/50 custody of our children..
But when it's time to back ...Saying goodbye to my kids is the most difficult ;(
it's been like 4 months this way I still can't get over this, every time whenever they r going back I hug them so tight and say goodbye with tears ;'(
it's heart breaking


Keilly - posted on 02/09/2014




As long as they know you love them and you show them you love them, they will be just fine. its good for them to have a dad AND a mom. I know it hurts when you have to say goodbye just remind yourself you WILL see them again and you are they only mom they have. Im sure they love you very much and any parent in a situation like this is tough. But you are not saying goodbye forever, only a short while. Enjoy them while they are young and make awesome and loving memories with them. Make a point to tell them you love them on a daily basis whether its a phone call or in person. Call them everyday they arent with you. Tell them how your day is going and that you are thinking about them. Ask them how their day is going etc. Take lots of pictures cause one day they wont be small anymore. They love you and you love them. I dont even know you and i know this based on the fact that you cant stand to let them go. Keep doing what you are doing and it will get easier in time. I promise! Good luck to you and all that you do and God Bless you and your children!


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