Isabella - posted on 12/17/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )




My husband wants it, I don't. He's unattached since we last did it, and he just doesn't seem to understand that I'm too tired, too weak or just plain not in the mood lately. With 3 kids I'm running after, and another on the way (!) He's gone 9 hours a day, and I have no help. I tell myself to just "get it over with " so he can be happy but then I'm sore, back hurts and I'm just plain unhappy after. What do I do? :(


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MaryAnn - posted on 12/17/2015




Buy him a magazine. I kid.
It sounds to me like you are both overwhelmed and *neither* of you are getting what you need.
Organize a night where you can send the kids to grandparents or aunts, uncles, cousins, whatever for a night and just do something nice and relaxing, just the two of you. No kid talk, no work talk, no house talk.. Just date and see where it leads. Could help.

Heavenly - posted on 12/17/2015




yeah,I totally understand that one tell him to watch the kids when he gets home,clean up a little,cook and then you will consider taking him up on his offer,they want us to be super woman!

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