Gwen - posted on 05/31/2013 ( 7 moms have responded )




What is your biggest problem or frustration about your sex after you become a mom?

I am working on a book project and I want to really address what frustrates us and offer a solution to our sex problems after the birth of a child (or many children)...

Thanks in advance...


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Alexandra - posted on 06/03/2013




I not only can't find the time due to being a full time student part-time employee and a mom of an extremely active 17 month old little boy but my drive isn't there sometimes its kind of a nuisance. Between trying to keep everything together and their needs I'm starting to cave. Is it bad that sometimes I feel I just give in to make my spouse happy?

Kimberley - posted on 06/02/2013




I find fatigue is an issue ..entally and physically. I have an 11 year old, 8 year old, and 1 month old. I am a sahm and my husband who although helps ALOT is a needy man with an anxiety disorder who getsoverwhelmed and "bippy". Therefore for me all day i am seeing to someones older, cats, bippy hubby (who owns his ownbusiness forwhich ihandle finances, phone calls et ), newborn. Plus recovering from 24 weeks of bedrest and a c section that resulted in an infected scar and a previous back issue from a car acvident/spinal surgery that causes chronic pain issues. And finally, the need/desire to lose last10 lbs and exercise to get back in shape (i feel like a mushy marshmellow!) So i dont exactly feel sexy... :(

Britany - posted on 06/01/2013




i find it hard to even think about sex sometimes. im a stay at home mom with a 2 year old and a 6 month old. i am always tried. my 2 year old never sleeps and throws fits all the time. and my 6 month old is pretty happy as long as she is in her bouncer. so when i do find time to have sex with my husband im so exhausted as soon as my head hits the pillow im asleep.

Kimberly - posted on 06/01/2013




My biggest problem is finding the time and energy to have sex! My kids are 11,8,and 7 and his child that loves with us is 17 and we try to sneak off to our room when they are occupied but it seems like as soon as they notice we are gone they need everything under the sun lol and at night he's so tired from working and me from dealing with kids and cleaning all day that we instantly pass out when we hit the bed lol. It's a struggle but we try to have sex at least once a week but that's rare! Lol

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