Should I stop the contact between the father of my children?

Maira - posted on 01/01/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )

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The father of my children took off about 10 months and he seen them like four times during that time. However, know he want to be in are children life but he talks badly about me to are children. I want to stop the contact with him and are children but it breaks my heart when are daughter tells me why she does not have a family. I do not know what to do if I should stop the contact until we go to court and see what happen next.

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I want to know how to keep the ex away. Anyone who would act so immature and selfish shouldn't be allowed to care for children. Parental rights should be automatic taken away as soon as parent has. I don't feel like the law is on my side. I am alone and raged because my ex decided that having sex with other people was so much more important than being a family man. I want to be more empowered and so far everyone is trying to tell me what to do and think. I am the angriest woman in the world.

Maira - posted on 01/01/2013

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I am glad to hear that things do get better. I guess she acts they way she acts because her father has a new girl friend and he is waiting on his 3rd child and his girl friend has two boys almost the same age as my daughter. But then again this pass months we are always together and even her behavior still there.
Hearing your story helps me feel like I am not alone on this. thank you for your advice. I will do what is best for my children and hopeful the father of are children thinks the same.

Maira - posted on 01/01/2013

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We are not marry. What are you saying is true. My daughter is five years old and my son is 11 months. My daughter behavior has change completely against me and I try to show her how much I love her. At first I did not understand why she has change with me that I have her in therapy so help her with her emotions and I have her doing an activity. However, we still do not have a court date but I am going for custody.

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