Should working ladies not be given rights to call herself a good mom

Naukritesting - posted on 08/13/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




I'm a working lady who was married in 2013 Dec in hard joint baniya family. My husband belongs to a joint family where his grand parents, his parents his two bothers and their wifes , kids along with me him and our daughter lives. Me being the youngest daughter in law is working and leave home in the morning and each home late. My husband's expectation is that i should leave my job for the baby but in reality i had 3 months taking a break from my job and in these 3 months i was only working in his family kitchen and he was too happy about it. Then he didnt cared that baby is crying for food, milk when his wife is working in kitchen. His only expectation is his wife to work in his kitchen and do not utter a word about all that. When i resisted he insulted me saying girls like u cannot be good moms because u are working lady. Tum bache ko fek kar jati ho mere ghar per... I'm so hurt by his words. His both sister in laws make my life miserable. He only listens to them. and they all get united and want i should stop working because my baby wants me . In reality i get up at 6:30 go to kitchen, complete all work then whole day is spend in kitchen. There is no time for my kid left. There was an incident when my baby was suffering from 102 fever and she was just 4 months old and i was working in kitchen preapring food for his family , i just asked his dad to take dinner 15 mins early his desired time so i was told how dare you to ask this to my dad.,. My husband is a horrible person to adjust with. Now im fed up he doesnt loves me only loves his bhabhi's .. he has no feelings for me.. Whether im suffering from fever, bp anything i have to work in kitchen otherwise i'll be abused. Im tired. He doesnt even give me expenditure to spend .. all my clothes and his kids clothes have been borne by my parents till now even after marriage.

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