Single mom sadness

Bri - posted on 09/10/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )




I'm a single mother my son is going on 4 and I messed around in June with my baby dad and guess what?! I'm pregnant!! I just can't believe this! He's never here to comfort me and I shouldn't be shocked because he never help with the first one anyways. Sometimes I regret this 2nd pregnancy, but then I think how can you regret your child just because of him. It's my fault to I should've made him wrap it up. This just gets to me alot sometimes ... Ugh! Some people even suggested abortion, but I just couldn't kill my baby because of a careless act I chose to make. I just had to get this off my chest , all comments, suggestions& opinions are welcome.


Jennifer9 - posted on 09/10/2013




I am a single mother without spousal support from the father.
He was in her life off and on until she was 3. She is now 14 and doesn't remember him much. He made an attempt to come back into her life last year and she was uncomfortable and said that for her....our family (myself, my parents & my brother plus his wife (they have no children) are her family.

Look at your situation this way. You child will have a sibling for life...a sibling with the same genetic make up as your son. :-)
Your son will never feel alone with another sibling around to grow up with and a loving mother.
(My daughter always wished for a sibling all of her life...I haven't married or settled down with someone since her father and I split...she has step-siblings from her father's side but hasn't been been raised with them.)

It might be rough at times to have 2...but it truly is a blessing! :-)

Rebecca - posted on 09/10/2013




Good for you, you have made a good decision. Two wrongs do not make a right!


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