Soon to be Ex is Acting like it's all my fault!!!!!!!!!!

Beth - posted on 01/10/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




My childrens father and I chose to go our separate ways after 12 years! and have been separated for almost 2 years. We both agreed on it so I filed knowing we both needed to move on.
Now that I have filed after a long separation he acts to everyone else that I wanted this and he didn't and that I threw him out.
Just needing to know how to deal with others misconceptions of the separation and the many stories that are floating around.
I feel like this is effecting the children because of stress on my part and the untrue stories they hear from others of there mother. As much as I want to stop others from talking about me in front of them it still happens.
Also I'm having trouble with him wanting to dish out all our troubles in court when I have nothing of his anymore (dept,furniture, home ect.)
custody would not change, neither would child support.
What can I do to avoid him doing so. I'm afraid the kids would be hurt if their dad or anyone else did their mom that way...? (they are old enough to know what is going on.)


Holly - posted on 01/10/2013




regardless of the age of the children, the do not need to be brought into this mess. all you can do is tell your friends that "what is past is past and there is no use in bringing it up, and i would appreciate you not bringing it up in front of the children." nobody needs to create big juicy gossip, you are not in high school anymore. people will eventually see the truth on their own.

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