step child

Babygirl9102007 - posted on 05/02/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )




I have been with a step child since he was 4 going on 5 and on his 5th birthday he told his mother then he did not want myself or my biological daughter at his party so I said we will not go .Over the years we are still together she has the kids full time her son That is now 12 still says he hates me and hates my daughter and it is ok for him to say that to us in front of his mother but if we say it back she gets upset things have not improved in the last 7 years but we try to stay together I'm frustrated and feel we need to break up because her son said he will not stop til they move any help would be great

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Jodi - posted on 05/03/2016




I'm sorry, you are the adult, and yet when he says he hates you, you say it back to him? Seriously? Grow up! No, it is NOT okay for him to say this to you, and in fact, his father needs to work with him, and also with his mother around this, but that does NOT make it okay to say back to him. Honestly, this should have been dealt with like adults back when he was 5, but clearly it wasn't and his father is not taking it upon himself to do anything about it. This is not, and never was your battle. But I will say I am disturbed by the fact that you think it is okay to tell a kid you hate them........

Where is dad in all of this?

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