
Cece - posted on 07/09/2013 ( 6 moms have responded )
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My husband regularly visit his son. When I'm driving with him I wait in car. I told my stepson that until they not married I wont come in. I ask him not to come with girlfriend to the house because for my neighbours it looks as if we agree when my husband fetch them and bring them.They having a child and its been going on for 3 years.I spoke to the girls mother and she wants her child to come home.We have 2 girls out of our marriage and want to raise them with good Christian values . My husband and I are both involved in the church.
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Michelle - posted on 07/09/2013
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Unfortunately these days the majority of people live together before marriage and also have children before marriage. A lot of marriages also end in divorce.
You are the one missing out on your Grandchild (yes, it may be a step can still be treated as part of the family).
I also think there is a bit of a double standard here, your husband has a child that isn't yours! He either had sex before marriage, is divorced or "lived in sin" as well.
Take a step back and look closer to home rather than judging your step son.
Ev - posted on 07/09/2013
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You almost sound like you are going around the subject here. You can not dictate the way your step son chooses to live his life. And worrying what the neighbors think about them is selfish at best. I think if you can not accept it and move on that is your problem not anyone elses. There is nothing wrong for them to come over for dinner or a day with their child, it does not show anything wrong. Being a Christian means not judging others no matter who they are. This is what I see you teaching your daughters and doing yourself.