Msmabern - posted on 06/04/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )
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I had my stillbith at 39 week,i was also induced at gave birth 4 hour later and went home without my baby boy.
i had anxiety attacks after five days which were so strong i thought i was dying.that became a problem for about four months,where one of my friends insisted that i go to the Dr and tell the doctor that i have stress.
i had a problem with eating and drinking water.that resulted in ulcer(was feeling hot in the stomach). i became so thin that everybody would stare at me when i was passingby(was size42 and then 36)
i nearly died because of loosing my child.
as if that was not enough.my husband became sick on the 14 january 2013 and died on the 28 January.his family is is saying that mean(death)we had sex much earlier after our stillbirth.a man cannot died within 12 months after his wife had stillbirth,if it happens then that means sex was resumed much earlier. we had sex after 12 weeks because of the anxiety i had even though the Dr said we can resume sex after our 6 weeks postp checkup.
this is so devastating.i am without a child after 39 weeks of pregnancy,after loosing my child 10 months later iam without a husband. i think his family is trying kill me emotionally or physcically expecially about what happened after i lost my child,they know i cant handle this
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Luludi - posted on 06/05/2013
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Dearest, I can't find words that can soothe you for the incredible disgrace you've been through... But about your in-laws, I can say that cruelty and meanness have no limits with some people! And never heard of such absurdities of course! what is it, some kind of superstition? However, have you got your family and friends near you? If so, your misfortune has cut all of your bonds with those nasty people, why don't you just send them to....out of your life?
May God and your two angels help you.