Still dont want sex after my 3 year old

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Hi my name is Nordia im new here my husband and i are separating/divorce im very sad but after my 3 year old i dont want to show love to my husband and now we keep having huge arguments about his spending and now he wants out i dont know what to do


Sarah - posted on 05/12/2016




Have you all been to counseling to discuss the underlying issues? A counselor would help to uncover the reasons why you don't want to be intimate with your husband and other issues that you all are facing. If you still want the relationship to work, then you need to let him know you want to work on things together. If he isn't receptive to it, then don't push the issue. Do you know why you don't want to be intimate with him? Did something happen or did he say anything to hurt you that caused you to withdraw? Sex isn't the only way to show love to your significant other. Yes, it's a part of a relationship, but there are other ways of doing so. Do you show him love in other ways? Does he show you love? Think about some of these and see what answers you can come up with. The problem isn't just you nor him. It takes two to make a relationship successful.

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