Stupid Husband and His Pissy Ass Attitude!

Lacye - posted on 08/05/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




Right now I am 14 weeks pregnant. I just found out last week that it is possible that I might have an incompetent cervix. Tomorrow I go to the state's capital to a doctor's appointment to have it confirmed. The problem is this, my husband and I have a 3 year old daughter who is extremely hyperactive and does NOT like to listen. So instead of taking her with us, I asked my sister if she would watch her so we could go. I dropped her off at my sister's house earlier and NOW my husband has decided that he wants our daughter to go with us. THAT IS NOT HAPPENING! I get stressed out enough without taking her anywhere because of the way she acts (she is so freaking hard headed!). I do not want to take her to the doctor's office with us and have her throw a temper tantrum (like I know will happen) and then have him cussing and bitching about her acting up after we leave. I'm not going to be able to handle it. Not tomorrow. Any other day, I can deal with her but tomorrow I'm going to be so stressed and freaked out anyways because I'm worried about this baby and I'm scared I might not be able to carry it full term. I just can't do it tomorrow. So he and I get into a huge fight about leaving Lily with my sister, which I told him last week we were probably going to have to do that because of the way she acts and he AGREED! Now he is going back on what he has said and wants to bring her with us knowing she is not going to behave. Now I'll admit, most of the time Lily is not that bad. She is 3 and has her moments like any other 3 year old. But whenever we take her in public, especially out of town, she acts like she is bat shit crazy and most of that is because of no naptime. I know my husband. He is going to want to go to the mall down there and go to the different stores down there and walk around (even though I have already been told to take it easy). He's just driving me crazy! Ok. Rant done, thank you for listening. lol


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Stifler's - posted on 08/05/2012




Sounds like us. Damian always wants the kids to come, but then he can't deal with them acting up when they do! it's like he has delusions of what they're going to be like.

Chaya - posted on 08/05/2012




My husband refused to take my daughter who was 10 months old, while I was being treated in the emergency department being treated for a heart issue. I was afraid I was having a stroke. Had I another option, I'd have taken it.
Tell him to quit being a jerk, if he swears around your children, the children will repeat it, then, (I've seen it happen) social services could well get involved. They call it anti social behaviour.
Tell him you're too likely to be stressed out over the older childs presence, it's probably not something she needs to see anyways, but you can't take care of a 3 y/o while being treated. It is not fair to either of you. (you or the child)

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