such is life.....

Virginia - posted on 08/14/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




I am a 33 yr old mother of a pregnant 15 yr old girl....she is due in January and will be 16 in November....i was a young mother at the age of 17 and had 3 kids by the time i was 20 things were difficult and i didnt want the same for my children but here i st with my 15 yr old who is 4months pregnant and i am at a total loss ...i am trying my best to be loving and supportive as most of my family turned on me when i turned up pregnant young but it is so difficult. ..everytime i begin to get a little comfortable with the situation something else happens its to a point where i can hardly have a normal conversation with my own child because the idiocy and nievity just drive me insane! I know i taught her better but she just wants to put on ths ac of stupidity when it comes to the babys father im really at a loss....prayers to anyone going through myself and anyone else trying to find there way through such a difficult time


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Sarah - posted on 08/15/2014




A resource you may want to use might be a crisis pregnancy center. This may help with someone else besides you telling her what reality will be like. You are her mom so what you say comes across differently to her.....just like every mom of a moms know nothing and they know everything and trying to tell them differently makes you go insane. ;) I have a 16 yr old ;) Having a 3rd party come in that is different then her mom sometimes even though it is the same thing you say and have said she takes it in and actually listens.

Hugs and best of luck.

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