LEE - posted on 05/25/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )




HI Everyone,
perhaps this sounds like a small issue however I keep saying to my kids/18next week and 20 that it is not nice to swear all the time. I may not be innocent of ever swearing however they are constantly at it ! I tell them it's not respectful and where is their vocabulary ?
Any other suggestions?
Trying to raise kids or young adults in your house I feel like I have to pick my battles of course


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Sarah - posted on 05/25/2016




I tolerate an occasional curse, as I curse once in awhile. But to use foul language as part of every conversation? No way! I started when they were young and if they used vulgar language, I made them write down ten to twenty alternative words to replace the curse word. Worked wonders. But I gotta say if mom and dad swear, then the kids will too.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/25/2016




Wait, your "kids" are actually adults? When did you stop enforcing your house rules? Do these adult children at the very least pay their room and board?

Put in a swear jar. Enforce it. Work on growing a new backbone and get those adults out on their own. You were raising them before. Now that they are adults, you are allowing them to take advantage of a free house, maid, cook, and bank.

Michelle - posted on 05/25/2016




Have a swear jar that if anyone is the house is caught swearing they have to put money in. If they are like most 18/20 year olds then taking money off them will make them think before swearing.

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