The father of our child gets married an stops communication an wife tells me i have to go through her

Sandra Dee - posted on 02/05/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )




I have been havin problems with my kids step mother, got my kid a phone to have control an texting her stuff that i consider rude an makin my 11 year old feel worthless an her father also did the same. Since his wife has tooken phone back now is bein very rude an tellin me they will see me in court an sayin that courts say if i have anythanything to say i can go through her when it comes to my daughter an there is no reason for me to have her fathers #. I have tried workin with them as much as possible but after all this an watching my kid cry over wat they texted her i dont want her to be around his wife at this point but i wont stop my kid from seein her father either. He also not even havin ouour child has turned around behind my bavk an claimed her. Im so stressed out cuz of this drama, im lost for words on wat they are doin. My kid also when she does go to her dads comes home starvin an not feeling good, usually her dad drops her off an tells her to tell me to take her to the doctors. I dont want my kid dealin with this an bein put second, her dad told her he has a new family an he will stick up for them an if my kid is goin to lie an be drama he not his wife want that around there family but yet i didnt do anything an they are now threatenin me to take her but can get her when supposed to cuz they r workin or too busy. It makes no sence an they are hurtin my kid an my kids dad told me im the one thats hurtin her becuz im protectin her from all of this


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/05/2015




What do your court orders say? If there aren't any, I'd suggest getting an attorney and getting some orders in place.

Michelle - posted on 02/05/2015




Do you have any court orders in place?
If not then you go to court and get them sorted out ASAP. In those orders make sure it states that if there is anything to discuss regarding your daughter it is between you and your ex, NOT his wife. You have every right to have his phone number as you need to discuss your daughter with HIM only.

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