Understanding Men

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Today when I was at school there was a couple walking around getting a tour from a faculty member. As the couple walked past me, I noticed the husband staring at the administrators butt while they were walking behind her. This infuriated me and it's still driving me crazy. I just don't understand how you could do that especially with your wife standing right there.
I don't understand why men think it's okay to look at everything with two legs and no male parts yet females can't look at men without their man getting mad or getting called a whore. (I don't really notice other men I'm just wondering). It's the same concept isn't it? Can someone please try and explain to me why men always stare at women no matter what, but it's wrong when we stare? I really don't understand.


Jodi - posted on 03/22/2013




Meh, I've told my husband when I think a guy looks hot. No biggie. Women do it too. If he thinks a woman is hot, I don't care. I mean, come on, isn't it just the truth? It's not like we are acting on our thoughts. It's just human nature. We trust each other, but we're human too.


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Michelle - posted on 03/26/2013




My favourite saying is "Just because you're on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu."

It's human nature to look at the opposite sex and most people wouldn't act on it. I know my husband would turn around and say my butt was better.

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I have no problem with my husband looking at other women, heck I point out a good rack to him all the time. Its in every human's nature, and I don't think I have even been called a whore for admiring a nice set of sculpted abs.

I think the thing to remember here is that it is their relationship and they get to define what is acceptable for them.

Liz - posted on 03/22/2013




I don't care if my husband looks because he never strays. Also, I'm probably going to be looking at the same time as he is in any case.

Tyla - posted on 03/22/2013




I don't get it either but I don't care if my husband looks because he always comes back to me and our beautiful baby :)

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