Wants another baby....

Nina - posted on 12/29/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




Well....my daughter is 2 years and 4 months old and for some reason I have baby fever. I want to have another child badly, I miss being pregnant, feeling the kicks, etc....2 problems though....
1) I am currently working and going to school full-time and a part of me knows that coming out pregnant I won't be able to continue doing what I am doing now...
2) Even though my husband says YES lets have another one, everytime we go at it (you know ::wink wink::) he does what a man that doesn't want another child does (if you get my drift)
Im confused and don't know if I'm making the right decision or not. HELP !!!


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It sounds like a lack of communication and possibly your husband's fear of providing for another child. If you are continuing your education, how do those plans involve an infant? Are you willing to put your career on hold a bit longer, or is your career flexible with a new addition? Being that we're just gettign through the stress of the holidays, give your husband more time to work out his issues with wanting more children. His actions speak volumes right now. Find out what is causing him to hesitate. He verbally says 'yes' to more kids, but then like I said, his actions say otherwise. DOES he really WANT more kids? Or did he say 'yes' just to appease you? Again, it's a lack of communication and something you need to have a conversation about. Best of luck to you!

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