watch your children by pools

Beverly - posted on 09/20/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




my daugther three years of age drowned in 2012 in my sister pool by no one watching her and me not being present hurts me everyday and i sometimes dont understand how i can live with myself its hard to even do things i enjoy anymore and my emotions has took a toll on me and others around me because i feel like all my love was taking when she left this earth i miss her dearling and really dont know if ill ever have another child because another can not replace the one that hold my heart i was a teenager when i had her and knew nothing about life so i lived for her and tried my hardest to make a good life for us and she the one that gave me the oush in life to do something postive instead of throwing it all away and i want women and men to understand to cherish all the moments you have with your child because you never know when it might be your last day with them cause i sure didnt know that would be the last day ill speak to her and her asking me to me to come get her was her last words to me and they replay everyday and that kills me the most because i wasnt there to save her like a mother should have and its hard not to blame myself when i was suppose to be her protecter i really came on here to see if i can talk to someone about this so i dont feel alone cause people dont understand unless they been threw it and all the sorrys are fine but they get old and make you more anger cause thats all you here when u need someone to comfort you instead of the same old same old


Michelle - posted on 09/21/2013




I'm sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what it's like.
That's why pool fences are law here in Australia. Even around a spa it's law to have a fence that meets the standards.

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