What age should teens date?

Sammy - posted on 02/05/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )

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I personally don't think there should be a set age on when a teen can date. As a parent, you know how mature and mentally ready they are to date. I had my first boyfriend at 15. Plus if your kid met someone and grew real feelings for them and you forbid them from dating I'm sure they would grow to resent you. I don't think teens are ''too young to date'' but some are too immature and too naive to understand what relationships are all about. My grandparents met when they were 14 and 16 years old and they are still together almost 60 years later. That's true love.
If your teen comes to YOU and tells you that they want to date, you shouldn't deprive them. They will do it somehow. Especially if it's someone that they see everyday at school.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/06/2015

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Ok, so let her friggin date. Don't presume to tell the rest of us how to raise our kids. Your OP sounds like (as I said) another teen trying to tell us how to raise teens...which always makes me laugh, the little know it alls...

If your method worked for you, great. Mine's working for me, too. It didn't involve letting them date at 13, 14, even 15...and group outings only from 16-17. I'm not a grandparent yet, so things are going well!

I'd perhaps consider your arguments if you hadn't presented them with no more thought than an average 15-16 YO who didn't get their way.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/06/2015

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Here we go again...teenagers that have too much time on their hands presuming to tell adult parents how to parent their kids!

Sweetie, when you HAVE kids of your own, you can decide how to parent them...

Jodi - posted on 02/05/2015

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So why should we take advice from you about what we should let teenagers do? After all, my kids aren't the ones out of control, LOL.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/06/2015

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I missed that one...Dang, that's what I get for taking a weekend!

Sammy - posted on 02/06/2015

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Shawnn, I have an 18 year old daughter. So yes, I would know about being a parent. Thank you.

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