What am I??.........

Rhonda - posted on 12/12/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )




I feel like such a loser!! My husband spends more time with Facebook. I know he's adding people he doesn't know, and I HATE that! Told him many times, if its "our" Facebook I don't want want them on there!! He just wants "more friends" I feel like his slave,.. ( he works at home doin stocks) (i am a stay at home mom ) so when he needs water or food I get it... What oh what should I do?? I feel stupid, I brought it up to him before.. But ugh.....help?.....did he marry Facebook or me??


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Michelle - posted on 12/14/2012




For starters communication is imperative in a good relationship. You need to be open and be able to discuss anything. If he is hiding things from you then it's not a good sign.

My husband and I have separate FB accounts (that how we met actually) but we are able to sign into each other accounts if needed. I completely trust my husband though and have never needed to.

Jodi is right though, you are enabling him in his demands. In my house, if you want something you get it yourself and you also offer everyone else. NO ONE in my house demands me to get anything and my kids are 11. 8.5 and 2.5!!!!!!!

Rhonda - posted on 12/13/2012




Lately he hasn't been spending a lot of time with us... I know he's been hiding stuff on the computer, somehow all the history is gone, he says it helps his work go faster... Hmm but right when I leave? Haha we have only one cell phone, I always have feelings that's he stops messeges and stuff from Facebook to the phone, cuz all of a sudden they come back when I get home.. Ugh, I am much younger than him too, that could be it... I donno.. What to do.....never tells me nothin, so I feel stupid when someone asks did u see .....so and sos picture....

Jodi - posted on 12/12/2012




Firstly, get your own FB profile, then it will be his FB. But I get the feeling there is more to this than him adding friends to FB. Is this about him not spending any time with you or any time helping you?

Secondly, when he needs water or food STOP GETTING IT FOR HIM!!!! Tell him he has legs, he is capable of getting it himself!

It sounds to me like you are enabling his behaviour to a degree, but it is hard to tell from what you have written.

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