what to do with ex's new gf interfering with child visits

Amanda - posted on 11/20/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




My ex, and father of my 2 beautifull girls, who are 25, and 15 months old has a new and very controlling girlfreind, longg story short he has commentment issues and constanly cheats, he see's my girls maybe 1 a month when he sees them he buys us lunch, buys them a few toys ext. My problem is new gf is constantly calling and texting him during those times, I asked her to stop while we were meeting an was told it wasn't my bussiness, and that I need to but out of his life, and he needs to focus on his family not mine, when I said I'm sorry my girls are his famiy I. Was told, no me and my child are his family now(her child not his) really frustrating I'm also dealing with post partum depression and anxiety issues, and am at my wts end, my girls don't need this crazy lady trying to push them out of their fathers life, I forgot to mention before "new" gf he saw them every weekend, now its like 1 a month do I just close the book on dad until he see's she is trying to dothis?


Medic - posted on 11/20/2011




Just step back and let him make his decisions. If he calls to make arrangements to see the girls great, try and accommodate them. If he doesn't don't call him asking when he is going to see them. His true colors will come out and shine brightly.

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