what would you do if your 6 year old daughter said her Dad watches her and sister go potty?

Kimberly - posted on 08/18/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )




I have a recording of my oldest daughter telling me her Dad watches her and her little sister (4 & 6 y.o.) go potty and she doesn't like it. She said it makes her feel mad.
She also said in this recording that he don't let the girls give him hugs or kisses. I'm curious what other people think of this strange behavior told to me by my daughter. Thank you for responding.


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Gena - posted on 08/19/2014




I could imagine he is just helping or maybe checking that they clean their bums and wash their hands. I dont find it odd to be honost,especialy since he doesnt allow them to hug or kiss..eventhough giving dad a hug isnt a bad thing. Maybe if it bothers her alot,try talking to him..tell him to wait outside the door till she is finished,he can go in and help when she is done using the toilette.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 08/18/2014




Do you record everything your kids say when they get home from dad's?

Honestly, a 4 YO and even a 6 YO sometimes still need help in the bathroom. Not all the time, but its still a reality at this point. Heck, I even helped some of the neighbor kids who were older than that a time or two.

I'm taking this to mean you and dad aren't living in the same home, if you're recording the kids when they get back.

Are you attempting to charge your ex with sexual abuse? Have your children been exhibiting any of the behaviours?

Generally, a groomer will not tell the kids they can't hug/kiss him...

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