When do you know you are ready agian?

Kayla - posted on 07/01/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )




I had a miscarraige about 6 months ago. My husband wants to try again for another baby. I no longer want to. I technically had two miscarraiges back to back and I dont want to go though it again. I have a child from a previous relationship. My husband would like a child of his own. I don't know what to do. Yes I would like another baby but I am scared I will just keep miscarring.


Neva - posted on 07/01/2011




I would talk to your OB and see if they can determine a reason for your miscarriages. I would also talk to a counselor to deal with the grief over your losses. Many people don't realize that a woman goes through the same grief process with a miscarriage as they do with the loss of a child. It is real, and you should allow yourself to grieve, but a counselor or a support group of other women that have gone through the same thing can help. Give yourself some time and you'll know when you are ready. Don't let anyone push you when you aren't ready.

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