Why does my 10 year old have sex that is not ok and I try to stop it but I can't can I have ideas


Elizabeth - posted on 03/04/2014




Do you know who she is having sex with? And how did you find out, did she tell you? You really need to put a lock down on that take her to the health department to have her checked out and have a professional explain the consequence of her actions and her age can have on her in the long run. Be understanding but put your foot down on that one. And if the person she is having sex with is her age than you need to find the parents of this child, if he or she is older than you should press some sort of charge or restraining order against them for using a child who doesnt fully understand how to give her consent

Beverly - posted on 01/04/2014




Hi April. My question for you is when and where is she having Sex? I have a 9 year-old and she is always supervised by adults. I think if she is closely supervised she would have a hard time being sexually active. Does she participate in cheer or other extracurricular activities with girls her age? Does she go to church r Sunday school? I would never allow her to go to sleepovers or visit peoples homes without me. I would also remind her of how beautiful and valuable she is as well as her body. I would talk to her about values and loving herself.She is still really young and you have time to build her up where she's torn down.

June - posted on 03/04/2014




hi april I think you should ask her who she wants to have sex with and why she wants to have it! ask her what she thinks sex is. I AGREEE you should have her supervised!

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Jodi - posted on 03/04/2014




April is a troll. You only have to look at the comments she has posted to know that.

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