Why does my own DS9 call me by my first name?

Megan - posted on 07/12/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )




Kids saw me briefly coming back from their BDs house from summer visitation, my oldest is treating me like total crap! Its really sad and I dont know what is the best thing to do!

When telling him to go to time out and sit down by youself for some alone time I call it....He said no "MEGAN MARIE!"

His BD calls me that leaves threatening voicemails and says first thing Megan Marie! as if i am a 2 yr old ! He is so immature to do this. He refuses to call me "mommy," as well! I m just so sad.....


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Tamara - posted on 07/12/2011




It could also be an age thing all kids go through a phase where they call their parents by their name especially when they are upset. As Dee explained let him know its not acceptable and offer a consequence

Kyleigh - posted on 07/12/2011




sounds like its a "learned," behaviour that is in BDs house, he see's that his father does it and its appropiate, 9 is STILL young he should know right from wrong but guide your DS and let him know your feelings and you dont appreciate that. Take away something if he keeps doing it whether it be video games etc.

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