I feel bad leaving her at night

Tatiana - posted on 04/08/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )




My daughter is 20 months old and going to work at night and leaving her with daddy is killing because she seems to be more closed to daddy, it's all about my husband. I am now asking myself is it because i work at night and sleeping most of the time, because im always tired. I try to have more daughter mommy time with her by going out with but it does not seem to work. Any advice?


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Elizabeth - posted on 04/09/2011




if you are working at night..then isn't that when she is sleeping? It is only natural for a child to be more attached to one parent and there will be times where it switches. Both of our daughters absolutely adore their daddy ..I'm chopped liver when he is around. Honestly, it doesn't bother me though because I could use the break.

It also doesn't bother me because I know how wonderful a father he is..in addition to being a great husband. I know you probably have "mom guilt" and that isn't helping but...maybe seeing it from another prespective will help.

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