I'm a Mother/Sibling.... Can it all be the same thing?

Anushka - posted on 09/29/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )




Hi.... I'm a mother/sibling to my 3yr old little sister Aniyah.

My mom's 45 && is a little rusty on current child care, procedures, (...and fashion LOL!) so i took control...
Lots of ppl tell me that i shouldn't care for her or raise her as mine because she isn't. Even tho she's well aware of who's her mother & father and that i'm her sister...
Is what i do for her wrong, because she's physically for my mom?

I just see it as harmless helping out & the attachment is normal... :-)


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Abby - posted on 10/05/2010




As long as everyone understands who they are, then it shouldn't be a problem. Just remember that you are the sister and at sometime you will want to get out on your own and have your own kids. It is good that you want to help your mom because moms need all the help they can get. Just make sure you all communicate.

Leandra - posted on 10/05/2010




if everyone in the family is healthy and happy with the family dynamics, then don't worry about what anyone says.

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