I want a 2nd child but it's not working!?

Diana - posted on 12/23/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )




I want a 2nd child but my doctor said it is hard cause one of my ovaries is swollen! 3 of my friends are pregnant and it's just so stressful!

If one ovary is swollen than there is no chance of me getting pregnant at all?


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Sally - posted on 12/27/2009




Firstly, do you/the doctor know why your ovary is swollen?? Is there an underlying hormonal problem? And is it a good idea for you to fall pregnant while it is swollen (ie could you need surgery on it?) I'd pobably try to sort out that problem before trying to get pregnant again!

If everything is ok with your ovary, I suggest you check out www.fertilityfriend.com.
It's an onlie tracker an gives you a lot of information about how to read your body's signals. I fell pregnant in my second month of using it, the friend who refered me to it says she fell in the first month, and the two friends I have recommended it to have fallen in the second month as well!

Good luck :-)

Kirsty - posted on 12/24/2009




Hi, Im in the same boat as you. I have found out that I have a hormone imbalance.
I was worried that my thyroid wasnt working properly, and after a blood test I found that my thyroid is fine but my hormone level is very low.
Maybe you should get your doctor to investigate to see if there are any other issues.
Main thing is not to stress about it, I know its hard! I have to keep telling myself the same thing almost 100 times a day!
We have to remember that at least we have a child, and it will be so exciting when the next one comes!
Take care!

Diana - posted on 12/24/2009




Thank you so much for your advice. I am trying very hard not to stress but pregnant people is everywhere even my close friends are pregnant and it's so hard! ugh!
I need a vacation! I will look into what you have told me...
Thank you again! =)

Diane - posted on 12/23/2009




Try not to stress, stress apparently can cause problems when trying to fall in, have you considered going to a Naturapath, I have heard a lot of good stories from a couple of friends who have had trouble, one of my friends was told she would never be able to conceive because she had suck bad indomietriousis but she managed to have 2 children, hope this is helpful and good luck and try not to stress.

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