What do you do when your two daughters are at total odds with each other?

Jackie - posted on 02/03/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )

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They fight constantly, the younger complains that the oldest doesn't want to hang out with her, but when she does hang out with her older sister she just irritates her!! Don't know how to get the two of them to actually see how they effect the other. Someone help!!

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Jenny - posted on 02/04/2009

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I don't know the age difference between your girls, but my sister and I were 4 years apart and a lot of the time the age difference was just hard for us both to overcome. We would also go through fazes where we found things to do that we both liked. I wouldn't worry to much though, chances are that they will out grow it and become really close, I know my sister and I did.

Jackie - posted on 02/04/2009

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Thanks so much, we have raised the to be loving towards one another, but they just seem to battle all the time.  They both have such wonderful personality, but the growing up process is hard on the both of them.  I do know when they get older they will appreciate each other, but I hate seeing them at constant battle.

Jenn - posted on 02/03/2009

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me and my sister were the same way and the only thing that i found helped was finding something that they both enjoy to do together they may seem at odds right now but my sisters and i have a bond now that can never be broken give it some time i'm sure it will work out if it does by some chance get out of hand then entervein

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